Humiliation is a common practice in BDSM that involves acts or statements that cause the submissive partner to feel embarrassed or ashamed. This can take many forms, such as verbal humiliation or physical humiliation. Verbal humiliation may involve the use of degrading names or being made to perform embarrassing tasks, while physical humiliation may include being made to wear humiliating outfits or being exposed in public. Degradation is a more extreme form of humiliation that involves the submissive partner being made to feel less than human. Like being treated as an animal or a pet.
I establish clear communication and boundaries with my submissives. This includes discussing what activities we are comfortable with and what limits we have in terms of the type and intensity of play. I want to make sure you are comfortable as much as you can be during our online sessions.
DEGRADATION
Many relationships between Dommes and submissives are healthy, happy, and long-lasting. When done right, degradation can help strengthen D/s relationships. Degrading the submissive is something I enjoy doing on occasion. I set rules to ensure a satisfying experience for me and my submissives.
Humiliation is about embarrassing the submissive. It doesn’t always involve degradation. For example, make fun of submissives in front of other people.
Degradation is when I dehumanize submissives by treating them as less than human. I relegate them to an object-like or animal-like existence. Verbal abuse, like shouting insults at them, is also a form of degradation. That may sound too extreme for most people, which is why limits must be set. I don’t go beyond my submissives’ limits. I try my best to get them to tell me their limits.
I don’t degrade all submissives. I need to know what my submissives want first to help me determine how I should interact with them in the future. I prefer dominating a submissive in a way that we both enjoy. It’s easier for me when I know them well because I know their limits and triggers. It allows me to tailor the degradation to them and make it more personal. This is why I always want to know my submissive limits so I can make sure to stay within them.
There’s a fine line between consensual play and consensual non-consent. I’ve met some submissives who thought they didn’t have limits and they could consent to everything. Later on, they realize they do have limits. Some submissives are unsure how to say their safe word for fear of disappointing me. I check in on them from time to time. A simple “How are you?” goes a long way. I gauge their feelings without breaking the fantasy of consensual non-consent. You are allowed to say your safe word at any time. You will not be punished for it and you will not disappoint me.
I’m very critical when I degrade submissives. I understand how my actions can have negative consequences for them. I encourage exploration of different D/s dynamics, but I always make sure it’s within our comfort zone. It’s always better to be safe than sorry.
Sissification
Sissification is transforming a male submissive into a feminine or sissy persona through various means, such as cross-dressing, makeup, and behavior modification. It can also involve humiliation, objectification, and other forms of power exchange.
Sissification is hot because of the power dynamics and the exploration of gender roles and identities. Sissification allows me to explore my dominant side and to push my subs to new levels of obedience and submission. Of course, every sub is unique and has their own particular qualities that make them interesting and enjoyable to work with.
Your training will be centered around exploring and embracing your sissy identity. Whether it’s discussing your progress, giving feedback on your sissy outfits and makeup, or assigning new tasks and challenges, we will work together to help you become the best sissy you can be. I will always make sure the tasks I assign you are something you are comfortable with.
CHASTITY
Enforced chastity is something submissives should experience at least once. It’s fascinating because many things come into play. I make sure they can’t masturbate until I give them permission. It controls his sexual drive and makes him focus on pleasing me. They experience emotional detachment from sex when they’re not allowed to climax. It puts them right back down on their knees. It shows how much I care for them especially if they are new. There’s a mental state change that happens when I unlock them. They feel amazing but sometimes it takes them time to acclimatize. They might not feel good at first but soon, it becomes a habit for them. They will no longer miss having regular releases or return to a normal life.
I teach newcomers about chastity by locking them for short periods of time. I increase the locked periods in increments. This allows them to go a little longer without orgasms. I love seeing my submissives beg me to let them cum that it hurts and almost breaks their resolve. They learn that chastity can make everything better, stronger, deeper, and last longer. It takes patience and determination. It becomes a fun challenge to try and break their wills over and over again.
There are a wide variety of devices a submissive can use to remain chaste. The standard metal or plastic cock cage comes to mind, but there are other options available. I’ve had submissives who like wearing a chastity belt that only covers their genitals. Some submissives prefer cages around both cocks and balls. That leaves their ass open for penetration. Others like leather hoods that leave their bodies exposed for stimulation. A few submissives enjoy multi-part chastity suits. These suits’ purpose is usually to keep clothing in place. They give a very erotic feeling of helplessness. I own them completely and can do anything I please with them whenever I want.
I punish my submissives when they cheat during their chastity training. If they jerked off, I lock them up for a longer period. That’s not always necessary because most of them crave long term chastity. I dole out punishment when it’s warranted. I punish my submissives depending on the severity of the infraction. More severe infractions result to more serious penalties. I can prolong their chastity for days or longer. I order them not to masturbate without my permission. The one thing I never do is make someone feel bad about something by blaming them. He has done something wrong, period. It’s his responsibility to either stop himself before it’s too late. He has to wait until he’s permitted to cum again. I administer punishments only after a thorough discussion. I explain to them consequences of breaking rules. I do allow my submissives to remove the device to take care of themselves. You need to keep the area clean and you do not want to cause damage to yourself. Talk to me when you are worried about it or have a question.
AB/DL
AB/DL stands for Adult Baby/Diaper Lover, which is a kink that involves regressing to a child-like state, either through dressing up in baby clothes or wearing diapers.
The difference between an adult baby and a diaper lover is that an adult baby wants to be treated like an actual baby, while a diaper lover enjoys wearing diapers but doesn’t necessarily want to act like a baby. Some people who enjoy ABDL kinks may also enjoy age-regression activities, such as coloring in coloring books or watching children’s shows.
I’m both strict and nurturing. I understand that you have needs and desires that need to be fulfilled, but I also believe that it’s important to have boundaries and rules to keep things safe and enjoyable for both of us.
I will have a clear set of rules and expectations for you to follow, such as maintaining good hygiene, eating healthy, and completing any tasks or assignments that I give you. These rules will be designed to help you feel cared for and loved, while also reinforcing the idea that I am your caregiver and you are my little one.
In terms of fun baby tasks that I might give you, the possibilities are endless! We could engage in age regression activities like coloring in coloring books or finger painting. or I might have you practice crawling or walking like a baby. I could also ask you to wear a diaper and take pictures of yourself in different positions or have you practice speaking in a baby voice.
It’s important to remember that everything we do will be consensual and safe. Before we start our play session, we will have a thorough discussion about your limits and boundaries, and I will make sure to respect them at all times.
In terms of the day-to-day routine, it will depend on your individual preferences and needs. Some ABDL players prefer to engage in play sessions only occasionally, while others prefer to engage in more frequent and immersive play. We can discuss what works best for you and create a schedule or routine that fits your lifestyle and desires.
In general, our day-to-day routine might involve checking in with each other regularly to make sure that we are both feeling happy and fulfilled. I might ask you to send me pictures or videos of yourself in your ABDL gear, or we might engage in virtual play sessions where I give you tasks or assignments to complete. You can be on camera for this but I do not go on camera.
My goal will be to provide a safe and loving space for you to explore your ABDL desires. I will be there to guide you, nurture you, and provide you with the structure and boundaries that you crave. And if at any point you feel uncomfortable or need to stop, I will respect your wishes and work with you to find a way to move forward that feels good for both of us.
We will work together to create a routine and set of activities that work best for you, while always prioritizing your safety and comfort. I will expect you to follow the routine and to keep in touch with me often. I do not do scat play and will not watch you dirty or pee in a diaper. You can do that on your own time.
CONSENSUAL EXPOSURE
I’m very adept at consensual exposure. I have a blog and Twitter account where I usually post submissives who are desperately craving exposure.
Submissives often tell me how horny they get from exposure activities. Submissives also get hornier the longer their exposure stays online. It always gives me a feeling of satisfaction to quench the thirst/hunger of these submissives that approach me. Be sure to ask about my exposure fee and to get a permission form sent to you. The form will need to be signed and sent back to me before I start any exposure.
TECHNODOMME: AnyViewer, Parental Controls, Computer Takeovers, and More
Anyviewer gives me access and control over a submissive’s computer or smartphone. AnyViewer allows me to watch what the submissive can see on his own screen and use my own mouse and keyboard for inputs to his device. I can use AnyViewer for lockdowns, reboots, blocked submissive inputs, black screens, file transfers, audio and video chats, and so much more.
Most submissives who approach me for AnyViewer domination prefer more benign controls like having me post on their social media accounts to humiliate them, send humiliating e-mails to people they know, transfer files from their device to mine, mess up the organization of their files, change the theme of their Windows session from simple to all pink with matching kinky icons and a dick cursor, opening PornHub to make them watch a video of my choosing, and a lot more.
It’s good if the submissive has resolve in surrendering control of his computer to me. I always tell them before I begin that he can always quit if he feels overwhelmed by the amount of control I’m getting. I explain to them all of my actions as I work on taking over their computer. It titillates them to be aware of how much more in control I’m becoming. Other ways for me to own the submissive’s computer is to customize the color theme, wallpaper, mouse arrow cursor, desktop icons, user account pictures, user account names, and screensaver.
ORGASM CONTROL
Controlling someone’s orgasm is very empowering. My favorite way to control the orgasms of submissives is by edging them. Edging is when I stimulate submissives until they’re on the brink of an orgasm. I do it through various forms of teasing, denial, and JOI (Jerk Off Instructions). For example, if I wanted to edge a submissive, I would start by teasing him until he started to get hard. Then I’d stop and let him rest for a few minutes. Stopping him will not only frustrate him. It will also drive him to desperation for his sweet release. After a little bit of time has passed, I’d continue with JOI. As he got close to cumming, I’d make him slow down. I’ll continue edging him until I’m satisfied that he deserves to cum.
Edging is an excellent form of teasing because it involves a lot of anticipation. When I edge someone, I give them something good to look forward to without actually letting them have it yet. It’s also convenient because I don’t need any special toys or equipment.
Sometimes, I edge submissives only to deny their orgasms. I don’t allow them to cum. I allow them to cum after a denial if they’re so desperate and beg me to let them cum.
It’s hot when submissives do exactly what I tell them to do. “Stroke your cock” seems to be their favorite instruction. I give them more than “do this” instructions. I also describe sensations and suggest titillating scenarios.
